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Happiness: It’s little sense (#007)



      I, have three (3) kids, my eldest ages 8 years old, who was in Grade 2 the second one is 4 years old he was on his preschool and the younger was 3 years old. As the time passed I observed they were growing up. My children love to play. They play together like running, jumping, telling story, playing their toys  and playing with others kids.

One morning, I arrived from work tired and saw that all their toys was scattered at the floor other toys parts are ruin, even the pillows, blankets and their cloths was on the floor and out of it they set up a house they call it in the sala and a lot of paper cut into small pieces scattered in the house then I asked them why they played and a lot of mess on the house. I started to got angry and told them why did you do that… you always play and your toys was destroyed and was scattered in the floor again and again. Then again in again I will be the one to clean and arrange all of that.

Then, I pause for a moment, and told myself …oh they are kid’s, it’s their nature at their age to play what can I expect. Then after That I just help them to keep their toys …so that when they want to play they can get it again.

         For a moment later, I am thinking even if I am tired from work as full time employee then after I got home to my children that the time for me to take care of them even if it is quite hard for me doing multi- function as full time employee at the same time a full time mother. I am doing it for my children.

 As time goes by my little angel turning into kids and seeing my children  growing up and experienced being with them at the same time. Like seeing them every day their smile, laughter, listened to their own invented stories of the house they made and the toys they were playing…spontaneous story telling  with matching acting and the papers they made into small pieces like petals to shower inside the house what a mess…. Imagine how they play… All of that I am proud to witnessed and that I am here guiding them and I was happy seeing my three (3) kids playing and growing together.


         As their mother this is a really big thing to celebrate. It is a reward that no one can distinguish. The ultimate reason to be happy and to be proud. A complete feeling of fulfillment. Above all a real achievement that I consider most. A thing’s that I have, that money can’t buy. I know it hard but I am Happy with my kids.
         

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